Child Custody Lawyer, Oklahoma City

Protecting Your Children, Securing Your Peace of Mind

Child custody battles can stir intense emotions — fear, anger, and uncertainty about the future. In these moments, parents need more than just legal guidance; they need a steady, experienced hand to protect their rights while keeping the child’s best interests at heart. Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates provides both strength and clarity when it matters most for OKC families.

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Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates: Oklahoma Child Custody Attorneys

Our Oklahoma City child custody attorneys have secured favorable outcomes for many clients facing custody disputes and parenting time disagreements. We understand that nothing is more important than your relationship with your children.

Our experienced team of family law attorneys provides comprehensive custody services, including establishing initial custody arrangements, modifying existing orders when circumstances change, and enforcing court-ordered visitation schedules.

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  • Relocation Cases

    Moving with children after divorce involves complex legal requirements in Oklahoma. Whether you're seeking to relocate with your child or opposing a move that would affect your parenting time, our custody lawyers help navigate Oklahoma's strict relocation laws, which require proper notice and court approval in many cases.
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Oklahoma Child Custody Lawyers: Proven Results, Compassionate Care

Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates secures favorable custody outcomes for families in OKC. Schedule a consultation today.

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Understanding Child Custody Laws in Oklahoma City

Oklahoma family courts make custody decisions based on the "best interests of the child" standard, which places children's welfare above all other considerations. This approach examines numerous factors, including each parent's ability to provide stable care, the child's established relationships, and the child's age-appropriate preferences.

In Oklahoma, custody is divided into two primary types:

  • Legal custody: The right to make significant decisions about your child's education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and other important matters.
  • Physical custody: Determines where the child primarily lives and the day-to-day care responsibilities.

Each type can be awarded as either:

  • Joint custody: Both parents share responsibilities and decision-making authority.
  • Sole custody: One parent holds primary authority, with the other typically granted visitation rights.

Oklahoma law recognizes the primary caregiver concept — the parent who has historically handled most childcare responsibilities — as an important factor in custody determinations. However, courts increasingly favor arrangements that allow meaningful relationships with both parents when possible.

At Lily Debrah Cruickshank & Associates, our OKC child custody lawyers leverage extensive knowledge of Oklahoma family law and decades of courtroom experience to develop strategies that protect your parental rights while prioritizing your children's well-being.

Factors Affecting Custody Decisions in OKC

Oklahoma courts consider numerous factors when determining custody arrangements, including:

  • Each parent's historical involvement in childcare responsibilities.
  • The child's relationship with each parent, siblings, and extended family.
  • Each parent's ability to provide stability and continuity.
  • The child's preferences (if age-appropriate).
  • Each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent.
  • Any history of domestic violence, substance abuse, or neglect.
  • The child's adjustment to home, school, and community.
  • Each parent's physical and mental health.

Our child custody attorneys help clients highlight positive factors while addressing potential concerns, presenting your case in the most favorable light possible.

Your Partner Through Child Custody: Our Supportive Approach

  • Initial consultation: We'll listen carefully to understand your family's unique needs and goals, creating a solid foundation for your custody case.
  • Case strategy development: We develop a customized legal strategy prioritizing your parental rights and your children's best interests. We proactively address potential challenges.
  • Negotiation and mediation: We strive for amicable solutions. Our skilled mediators help parents find common ground, creating cooperative arrangements that benefit everyone.
  • Litigation (if necessary): If needed, our experienced trial attorneys will fiercely advocate for your rights and your children's best interests in court.
  • Enforcement of orders: We take swift action when necessary to enforce court orders, protecting your parental rights and ensuring your children's well-being.

Your Trusted Partner in Child Custody: Compassion & Advanced Legal Advice

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  • 1,000+ Successfully Litigated Cases
  • 20 Years of Proven Legal Experience
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Meet Our Child Custody Attorneys in Oklahoma City

  • Lily Debrah Cruickshank

    Lily Debrah Cruickshank, the founding attorney and owner, brings two decades of experience to Oklahoma City families. A compassionate and results-oriented lawyer, Ms. Cruickshank is dedicated to providing effective legal solutions for families facing a wide range of family law challenges. Attorney Cruickshank is highly respected within the OKC legal community and by judges throughout the state for her tireless work ethic, sharp litigation skills, and reputation for honest representation. Her client-centered approach ensures personalized attention and strong advocacy throughout the legal process. 

  • Gracelyn Porras Dillingham

    Gracelyn Porras Dillingham is a skilled Oklahoma City attorney with a strong academic background and valuable practical experience. A graduate of Oklahoma City University School of Law, she achieved Dean's Honor Roll and participated in Mock Trial. Over the past two years, Attorney Porras has used her local knowledge and connections to be a rising star in the OKC legal community. She is dedicated to helping Oklahoma City families navigate challenging family law matters, earning the trust of her clients through thoughtful counsel, strong advocacy, and a deep commitment to achieving positive outcomes.

  • Candice Unruh, experienced legal assistant in family law with associate degrees in Criminal Justice and Psychology,

    Candice Unruh

    Candice has over seven years of experience as a legal assistant in family law, bringing a thoughtful, compassionate, and dedicated approach to supporting clients and attorneys alike. She holds associate degrees in Criminal Justice and Psychology, providing a strong foundation for understanding clients’ legal and emotional needs. Recently married to her high school sweetheart, she is a proud mother of four daughters and a stepson, and grandma to two grandsons. In her free time, she enjoys reading, gardening, cooking, dabbling in arts and crafts, and relaxing with a good movie. She has a heart for helping others and making a positive difference.

Serving Families Across Central Oklahoma

Our law firm helps parents navigate child custody matters in Oklahoma, Cleveland, Pottawatomie, McClain, Logan, and Grady Counties. For custody disputes that require broader support, our experienced attorney can also represent clients across the entire state of Oklahoma, ensuring families receive experienced legal guidance wherever they live. Call us to find out if we can help you if you’re located in a different county.

  • Oklahoma County
    • Oklahoma City
    • Edmond
    • Moore
    • Midwest City
    • Del City
  • Pottawatomie County
    • Shawnee
    • Tecumseh
    • McLoud
    • Bethel Acres
    • Maud
  • Logan County
    • Guthrie
    • Edmond
    • Crescent
    • Mulhall
    • Coyle
  • Cleveland County
    • Norman
    • Moore
    • Noble
    • Lexington
    • Goldsby
  • McClain County
    • Purcell
    • Blanchard
    • Newcastle
    • Washington
    • Wayne
  • Grady County
    • Chickasha
    • Tuttle
    • Blanchard
    • Rush Springs
    • Ninnekah

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Are you concerned about custody arrangements in your Oklahoma divorce or separation? Our child custody attorneys provide clarity and strategic guidance during this emotionally challenging time. Confidential consultations are available in person or virtually.

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